Overcome The Stress Of Your Child

Innocence of your child wipes off, when you start fighting with each other. Childhood is one of those memories which lasts till end of your death. But for some children, it becomes a disaster, when they see their parents quarreling frequently each day.

Children make an isolated mind in which they can never get constructive ideas but they miss their innocence and desire for getting adored. Who is responsible for all this? Who will take account of stealing the purity and virtuousness of your child. You have to think on this issue that if you will do something wrong, your child’s whole life will be disturbed.

If you will remain calm with your relationship then it will give positive effect to your child’s mind and at one place of your compromising years, you will get to know that you had taken right decision. Decision, which was not only appropriate for both of you but also, it was best for making desirable career of your child. Think about it. Are you trying to be good parents?

How To Handle New Toodler In Playgroup?

Parents want to see their babies having strong basics. For this purpose, they send them in day cares and sometimes, directly to Playgroup. Instead of sending your child in daycare, it’s better to admit him/her in Playgroup at the age of 3. This is the perfect age to let your child realize that now he/she needs to open his eyes in a new world. It’s not only difficult for parents to send their toodlers in school but also teachers face numbers of difficulties while handling a new comer. Here are tips, i will share with you, through which, you can make new toddler relaxed throughout his/her new day.

When you get your new admission in the class, greet him/her like you know him/her since birth. It will give a little push to new comer adjusting with you. He/she will get relaxed to some extent that he/she is in safe hands. Maybe, first time, you would have to listen to his/her screaming and crying but there is nothing to worry. You can stop his/her crying through effective tricks. You should greed him by offering some candies and chocolates. Mostly children stop crying, when they find their favorite thing so easily. Kids cannot keep away from candies and chocolates so you can freely take support of these things.

If you see, new comer is not handling at all by showing candies too then you should keep him busy in different activties. You should give him playdough because it’s a favorite game of several playgroup children. You should also sit beside him/her in order to show, how attractive things can be made from playdough. Kid will show little attention towards this activity and after a while, he/she will start sharing the ideas to make more interesting things with playdough. You can also handle new admission with help of coulring activity. Put a coloring book and one colour box in front of toddler and let him/her to show some creative work. Toddlers love to color a lot. These are few tips and suggestion, which i have implemented a lot and i have got definite success in my playgroup class.

Memorable College Days

Days are gone, when we were used to, of enjoying myarid of college activities like fun fairs, carnivals, dance competitions, sports, valentines day etc. No one had bothered ever about whats happening outside the life of college. When you step in a different walk of life like jobs, marriage, kids etc, you often miss those days, when you were free from all the worries. At that time, you had lots of stuff to do. It was fun, when you hanged out with your friends, without having the permission of parents. Student life is quite easier than a matured life, when you have to indulge yourself in different jobs which are most important part of your life.

 A good student life cannot be successful without having a desirable group of friends. If you are not an extrovet person and want to spend the days all alone then you cannot get real flavor of your college life. With loyal friends, you can share everything from discussing different love affairs to attend the night parties at pubs and bars.

When i was a student, i enjoyed  valentines day alot, when female students were holding lots of red roses in their hands which they got from their boyfriends. We often bothered many love couples on valentines day by giving them funny comments which irrirtated them the most. Especially at the time of new admissions, we loved to give many dares to new students. Once we had chosen one new addmissoin and gave him a dare to say ” I Love you ” to our principle.

When i recall these types of college activities in order to release my tension, it gives me supreme mental satisfaction and high level of pleasure which you cannot get from other activities of life. College days are defenitly gone but memories are still captured in the golden memories of those persons who really have spent a great deal of time in college. I am lucky to have good memories of college, friends, teachers as well as my funniest acts, which i did alot with my friends and with others.

TCS (insecure courier) fraud – tampering and removal of items / money from the package caught

Today i received a TCS courier parcel which was tampered and the seal seemed to be opened and reclosed . . . Asked the delivery guy to stop and called the person who sent me the parcel to know what exactly was in the parcel and how tcs insecure courieras it send, and it came to the notice that the parcel was really opened and then reclosed by the tcs staff druing the delivery procedure and some stuff was removed from it too! This is really a very bad impression from the TCS staff! Can you imagine your confidential documents or any other parcels being opened and your personal stuff being removed from it ??? WTF! I was really shocked to know that TCS tampers with your parcels and not only this, they remove the enclosed stuff and documents out of your parcels! without any notification on the parcel or of any sort! and also, those removed items are not returned to the sender, rather they are kept with them, for their personal use.

Upon some investigation and banging of the head in the TCS courier system offices, it came out that the parcel was opened and items removed at the senders area TCS office.

I don’t think that i will be able to trust TCS anymore and will never recommend anyone to send any confidential data/money via tcs ever! They might remove your items and/or money added in the parcel and simply refuse that it was there altogether! or maybe you don’t even notice or enquire the party regarding the contents of the parcel sent!

So just be careful when you chose TCS (or others, who knows!) not only in Islamabad, Pakistan, but also in other cities and countries! This is really a shameful act from such a renown company! and it’s no more secure to use it for personal and important stuff including money!

Playing Doctor Doctor!

stethLying on my bed after coming back from medical school/hospital, watching some videos on youtube and planning to sleep, my mom called me up, saying that the neighbors need some hep, their mom came from the village and is now feeling bad and congested here, so they are requesting to you to just meet her, check her blood pressure and make her relax and stuff! arghh!!! seriously! i mean, comeon! what the hell is this? why don’t they take her to the doctor in some hospital or clinic if she is complaining! why do they just don’t trust the old people when they say that they are not feeling well!

Well, have to get up! changed the trousers and picked up my steth and bp appratus, and went to their home, checked the old lady, she was complaining of bad mood and suffocation here, and also lower back pain. She had hearing problem, but was not using any hearing aid. I asked the family why don’t they provide her with hearing aid, they said coz she don’t use it bla bla.

I tried to question about her back ache, but the family was just asking me that ok, please check her bp and tell her that it’s normal, and back ache is just ok and all!

I checked her blood pressure, it was 165/85. Well, i told them its high, and they were telling me that no, its not high! lol, i asked them when was the last time they follow up with the doctor who is treating her high blood pressure, they said maybe a month ago, and when i asked who is he? any specialist? they said no, just some doctor in the village, i doubt if that really is some doctor or a quake!

I tried to convince them to take her to the hospital and specialist today so that he can check her and offer some better medication!

I wonder why don’t we people take care of our elders/parents when they go old! We asians claim that we live with our parents when they are old, not like the westerns who throw them in the old houses, but seriously, we ain’t doing no good, whats the use of just dumping them in some corner of your home. Just take care of them a bit! it doesn’t take much …

Oh well, did i mention? they didn’t even offer me my fee! 🙁 not even a glass of water! Just thank you and good bye! comeon! i deserved more than that!

The nai and my bhai

Well today we got some issue between my brother(bhai) and the cook (nai).

What was the issue? well, my mom asked him to get a daig cooked from the nai of biryani. Well, as he took his own meat and rice to him to use for biryani dish, maybe the nai/cook felt insulted!

So in the end when the biryani was ready, and some what crappy / ruined, the nai blammed my bro for it! saying that he was the one who bought bad rice!

He said that first of all the meat was of some female goat, thats why it didn’t get cooked / gala soon, took too much time, and the rice were of bad quality and small size!

I just bought the daig home, haven’t eaten it yet! will update once i eat and check it out! 🙂

An Arabi tried to make me realize today, that i m a low cast. . . Ajami

Living the life in my world, working hard some times, and some times having rest, but considering myself to be moving ahead in some proper direction atleast, one of my friend, well, maybe so called friend, made me realize i am still very low from them, because of the two main reasons:

  1. i am not Arabi
  2. my English language is not upto their standard

Well, about English language part, thats not a issue for me, as i know English enough to understand what i need to and can easily express my views to others too. I know my language, Urdu, very well, which i need to survive in the region i am living. I might learn English more once i plan to move to some English speaking country! because, unlike many, i dont consider English language to be a status symbol.

Now comes the other part, the not being Arabi (not being born in Arab Nation) part.

Well, this one did hurt. I remember our beloved Prophet, Muhammad ( صلى الله عليه وسلم ) said that no arabi is superior to ajami and no ajami is superior to arabi in view of Allah.

But that person insulted me in it, to make me feel, as i was so lower, and unlucky , not to be born as arabi, and they were the chosen one, to be selected to be arabic.

Well . . . i don’t know why i stated this event here, but i just had a strong desire to state it . . .